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  Hello readers! Today, we're going to talk about something that we all know deep down, but still forget to practice - being better for ourselves, not for others. Let's face it, most of us spend a lot of time trying to impress or please others. We dress up, speak a certain way, and behave in a particular manner, all to gain the approval of those around us. We do things we don't like, eat food we don't enjoy, and even pursue careers we're not passionate about, all because we want to fit in with the crowd. But what if I told you that trying to be better for others is not only futile but also a waste of time? Think about it - if you're trying to please everyone else, you're never going to be satisfied with yourself. You'll constantly be chasing someone else's version of success, instead of pursuing your own dreams and aspirations. Being happy and being yourself So, here's a suggestion - why not focus on being better for yourself? Think about what ma...

  Overthinking is the bane of existence for many. It's like a never-ending hamster wheel in your brain, spinning and spinning until you're dizzy with possibilities and uncertainties. But what if I told you that overthinking is not only unnecessary but also a hilarious waste of time? Let's dive into why you should kick that pesky habit to the curb and embrace the art of underthinking.   Jeez! All these thoughts! First of all, let's talk about the amount of energy that goes into overthinking. Have you ever spent hours on end contemplating what to wear to a party, only to end up going in sweatpants? Not that I've done that myself, but I hear it's a thing. The amount of brainpower spent on something as trivial as party attire could be better spent on, I don't know, curing diseases or inventing the flying car. It's time to put that mental energy to good use, people! Now let's talk about the absolute absurdity that comes with overthinking. Have you ever f...

Hello, my fellow singletons! Are you tired of seeing happy couples holding hands and kissing in public while you're walking alone, scrolling through your phone? Do you sometimes wonder if you're destined to be single forever? Fear not, my friends, because I'm here to share with you the joys and perks of being single! First of all, let's talk about the most obvious advantage: you have complete freedom to do whatever you want, whenever you want. Want to binge-watch your favorite TV show all weekend? Go ahead, no one's going to judge you. Want to go out and party until the wee hours of the morning? You don't have to worry about someone nagging you to go home early. You're the boss of your own life, and that's pretty cool. Being in love,, am I right ? Another great thing about being single is that you have more time and energy to focus on yourself. You can take up new hobbies, learn new skills, travel to new places, and explore your own interests without ha...

  When you get the girl,, then lose her  H ow does that happen, you may ask? Well, simply put, you get the girl of your dreams and you're all in the clouds about your amazing love story then BOOOOM!!! INSECURITIES, LOW SELF-WORTH AND YOU GUESSED IT. FINANCES make the dream a not-so-reality with living. It all starts when you find the girl and you promise her all the cliches in the world, love happiness stability. Like, yeah that's all possible, right? WRONG!!! This is the real world and such doesn't exist. I know what you gonna say: Oh Simo why do you gotta be hating on love?  I actually love it, to be honest, it's just complicated-cue the groaning emoji  But hey, why do we let such insecurities ruin our chances of love? Well, coming into this article I didn't really feel the need to be well, LOUD AND ALL. BUT COME ON!!!! Y'all can relate to when the ONE- the one who comes into the room and all you see is them.  I for one had the same reaction, SIMP we call it. ...

After a long silence of reflection I return with shocking news about relationships. I will intrigue; I will shock as well as entertain. Oh! Don’t forget make y’all guilty parties know you aren’t in the right no more. Yes, it’s a dawn of new relationship issues that will be based on…You guessed it:   Relationships. So, my pal Vince dates a beautiful girl by the name of Angela. They are what I would call a blissful marriage material couple in the making, if you ask me. Love was flowing like a sweet river in its youthful stage. Passion was driving them crazy and burning in their eyes…as well as in the eyes of the others. Yes, there were others in the relationship.” Don’t act shocked! It happens.” Vince said when I was completely swept away by the lack of emotion on his part. How the relationship is well,,communal Ideally, I’m supposed to come up and say, “What in God’s green earth are you saying?” (Clearly, I’m trying to keep composure here, OK? swearing isn’t really m...

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Why girls back to bad boys M y best friend was in a tiff with her boyfriend and they split up..TEMPORARILY. That's highlighted for a short time considering it happened a week ago. She was crying and asking me why men are so mean and hurtful  he he I got my mad emojis on when chatting with her to show solidarity. T hen she calls me jana akinishow that wamerudiana . :-| yeah yeah nilikuwa neutral  no emojis added thank you! " wow am happy for you", nili - mshow . " thanks bestie kuni - help", she replied. I'm not that happy but look! he broke her heart because..dare i say it  THE bro BE ALL INSECURE!!. S ure she forgave him but i couldn't understand..:-0 WHY DO SOME GIRLS GO BACK TO BAD BOYS? I mean i know the n**** got issues but bro! How the hell do you make a chile cry all night about you then expect aku - forgive in one day?? Hehehe kweli penzi ni kipofu .! I slept well by the way. Nah ! I couldn't sleep a wink!! Na- imagine the guy al...