WHY GIRLS GO FOR BAD BOYS

Why girls back to bad boys

My best friend was in a tiff with her boyfriend and they split up..TEMPORARILY. That's highlighted for a short time considering it happened a week ago. She was crying and asking me why men are so mean and hurtful  he he I got my mad emojis on when chatting with her to show solidarity.

Then she calls me jana akinishow that wamerudiana. :-| yeah yeah nilikuwa neutral  no emojis added thank you! " wow am happy for you", nili-mshow. " thanks bestie kuni- help", she replied. I'm not that happy but look! he broke her heart because..dare i say it  THE bro BE ALL INSECURE!!.

Sure she forgave him but i couldn't understand..:-0 WHY DO SOME GIRLS GO BACK TO BAD BOYS? I mean i know the n**** got issues but bro! How the hell do you make a chile cry all night about you then expect aku- forgive in one day?? Hehehe kweli penzi ni kipofu.!

I slept well by the way. Nah! I couldn't sleep a wink!! Na- imagine the guy all cozy with her after i had to deal with the emotional mess she was in so shortly after that incident  it's sad when that happens. I thought she knew better. Guess i was wrong!

But when its all said and done, love made her do that. Enyewe sioni ka ningeweza walai. Despite ile heartbreak, she still forgave him. *sighs*  well love is the answer to my age old question:  WHY DO SOME GIRLS GO BACK TO BAD BOYS? #T

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