Do Men Still Want Good Girls, or Just Vibes?


Once upon a time, men said they wanted Proverbs 31 women. Now, half are chasing IG baddies with soft-life captions. 🤷🏾‍♂️

Here’s the messy truth:

Some men want the “good girl” but can’t handle the discipline she demands.Some want the “fun vibe” but cry when she vibes with everyone else. 


And some want both—a saint in public, sinner in private. Spoiler alert: they rarely find it.

The bigger problem? Nobody defines what “good” means anymore. For some, it’s morals. For others, it’s cooking skills. For some it’s just “does she stress me or not?”

So what do men really want? Depends on the man. But one thing’s clear—mixed signals create messy outcomes.

  Men—would you rather marry a woman with no past or one who can cook a mean pilau?

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