If I Lead, Does She Sit Down?" – Why Kenyan Men & Women are Fighting for the Steering Wheel
Let’s not beat around the bush: As a man, when I lead… does that mean my woman must chill, shut it, and play backup singer in our duet of life? Short answer: No. Long answer: Keep reading, bro. Kenyan men have been crying louder than a rejected tender—“Women don’t submit anymore!” Meanwhile, Kenyan women are rolling their eyes so hard, they’re seeing their ancestors. Welcome to the love Olympics: the tug-of-war edition. Drama Loading So let’s clear the air before the next relationship dies in the group chat. Leadership is not dictatorship. This ain’t State House. Being “the man” doesn’t mean you speak and thunder claps. It doesn’t mean she becomes your unpaid intern or personal chef with zero opinions. If your idea of leading is giving ultimatums over mchele and mutura, you need to sit down and read Ephesians again—without skipping the part where Christ DIED for His bride. Yeah. DIED. Not “DM'd her occasionally,” not “paid rent then disappeared,” but full-on sacrifice. Still Arguin...